Here’s the deal:
Your body is literally an instrument for God/The Divine to sing through.
Your Eros, your life force energy, deserves the best of the best.
Give your erotic energy the love, space and attention it’s been aching for:
*give it your voice*
Forget trying to “sound good”.
You aint here to be impressive or pretty.
God doesn’t care about that.
This is the path of being PRAYEROTIC, and I'm here to show you the way.
Most likely, if you have an edge around singing, there’s a strong chance you could be struggling to articulate your voice elsewhere.
*Maybe you have a hard time speaking up in the bedroom
*Maybe you have a hard time articulating your needs in sex and in your intimate relationships or at work.
*Maybe you experienced religious trauma or something in your childhood that shut your voice down, made you not feel safe, didn’t allow you to truly express yourself.
I understand this.
I was a (pretty insecure) singer for nearly 20 years… THEN I entered the world of kink and saw how deeply woven they are.
As I learned how to surrender my body with the aid of floggers, paddles and ropes, I heard my voice articulate my desires and boundaries and saw how linked they are.
Once I experienced this level of surrender my voice and life changed:
*I was able to speak my yes’s and no’s with much more ease and clarity.
*The quality of sex I was having sky-rocketed
*My orgasms came more fully online
*I started being able to access states of ecstasy I had only experienced in deep sex while singing by myself
Now it’s your turn
I don’t really think I knew what my voice was before working with KJ.
I’ve been working with KJ song for a little over two months now and… wow. I’m totally about to say the cliché, “words cannot describe” but it’s couldn’t be more true. Words really can’t describe how much of an impact this work has been on me. How much KJ has been on me.
KJ and I have been uncovering my voice, MY voice. Without the nuance, facade, accents… my voice. I don’t really think I knew what my voice was before working with KJ. They’re soft yet no bullshit approach has allowed me to soften, deepen.
The softening gives space for my zone zero to arrive. The no bullshit holds me accountable to be real with myself.
Also, I want to pose a caveat that I have no formal musical training. I own my own coaching business and was inspired to see how working on my voice and unique sound would support other aspects of my life. I went into this experience 100% as a beginner.
Holy smokes, I was right. This work has supported me with my clients, helped me in my personal relationships, and this is just the beginning… after just two months of biweekly sessions.
Thank you beloved KJ Song for being the sweet and courageous light you are.
Kelsey Beth, Sex and Intimacy Coach
During our time together you will:
✧ Loosen your butthole significantly
✧ Feel exquisitely, joyfully uncomfortable and turned on
✧ Remember who tf you are and wonder why you every took shit so seriously
✧ Channel and sing your own songs with power and grace
✧ Uncover and reclaim some deep kinky stuff you probably forgot about
How it works:
✺1:1 Voice Dom Experiences are available to an intimate number of devoted individuals who are a full YES to making a high-level investment in themselves.
✺ 3 months, 9 sessions of 60 minutes via Zoom
✺ Unlimited voice memo + text access to me with a 48-hour turn around time (excluding weekends)
✺Wanna be in person? Totally possible. Talk to me.
Here’s how we can play together:
sensual toning so you can experience the hotness of orgasmic singing
vocal/anal connection and play so you can access more power and support from your root and sex
erotic breathwork so you can deepen your relationship with your body anytime, anywhere
gender bending/kinky queer exploration so you can shame-bust and affirm your inner slut
intimate body-based prayer so you can build trust within yourself and attune to the messages/songs God has to offer you.
Working with KJ continues to shed layers of inhibitions and insecurities around my embodied vocal expression- which is sooooo woven into my self expression as a whole! I come home to new (old) parts of me every time we have a session. I see the work in the way I dom, the way I submit, and the way I speak my needs in all areas of life. As a boss bitch, I didn’t know how much I needed this work until we dove in. Thank you.
Chimera C, Tantric Kink Coach and Dominatrix
Please note:
This is NOT about our erotic connection. This is about me, your Dom, creating a space of surrender where you, the sub, get to have ecstatic communion with God. I prioritize keeping this practice as potent as possible. I reserve an intimate number of slots for this work to keep it deeply personalized and catered to you. Your safety is paramount. This work is sacred, and it’s edgy. We work closely with consent and adhere to clearly communicated dynamics.
This work is:
*Rooted in prayer.
I thoroughly pray us in and out of every single session.
*Full of mystery
No concrete roadmaps here. We honor alchemical timing and your unique pace.
*Potent
You very well may experience discomfort and resistance… as well as intense joy and fulfillment.
*What you make it
The more you lean in, the more you’ll receive. Those who do their (fun) homework see the biggest results.
This work aint:
*Technique based
“Technique” takes care of itself once the underlying energetics and soul components are aligned.
*Cheap
Your investment is significantly spiritual, emotional, and financial.
*Singing “lessons” or therapy
This is not strategy based or linear. We work on a much more holistic level.
*Basic
Welcome to your next level, darlin. It’s your turn.
About Your Dom
If it has to do with singing, God and relaxing your a**hole, I’m in.
I’m your 5X Scorpio, Southern sassy human of raw devotion here to teach how to surrender and let God f*ck you wide open.
I have a years of international experience leading voice work for public speakers, musicians and queer-dos 1:1, at festivals, churches, and kink events. I am also a choir director and can get a group of people singing with their hands UP in no time.
Want more? The proof is in the pudding:
You can listen to my music here on the site, or on Spotify.
more client love
KJ’s presence and space holding is so fcking real but also tender and fierce?!? They helped me slow tf down, own the power of my voice, and also discharge so much shame around being seen and heard in my “imperfect” expression. Through this work I was able to write, produce, and release my first EP of original music, expressing a side of myself that had felt taboo to share publicly and I really did not think it possible before working with them. The most amazing part was that, by the time I released the album, it no longer felt so highly charged, and instead felt like an inevitable leap forward in my journey.
Stephanie B.
KJ is way more than a vocal coach. They’re more than a singer. They help me bring what was once hidden on the inside to shine with resonant power on the outside. With love, giddy excitement, deep presence and playfulness. They show me that anything that I feel deeply can sound beautiful, too. There’s a way that the singing itself feels like the container to share the beauty of my humanness. First with myself, then with the world.
Adrial D.
Cultivating my singing voice has been a much deeper endeavor than fine-tuning vocal techniques. It has been the gentle calling forth of my soul - giving voice to what my truest self wants to share with the world. KJ voice sessions have been life-changing. They are able to "hear" me on all the levels that I've yearned to be heard for so long. I can't speak highly enough of their work as a voice doula.
Morgan S.
How would I describe this work to my best friend? I would say: "Why NOT do it?? I see you diving in, you're looking for ways to be true to yourself, good to the world, beautiful in your body, strong in your visions, safe in your grief, bold with your love - this work is related to everything else in your life. This is another way of touching in, and you get to do it with a powerful wacky human who has and is still doing their own work. That is a fucking gift and you should taker them up on it.
Aliza P
KJ has clearly has gone through their own transformative process and uses their deep gained wisdom and intuition to stand next to me, guide and support me in finding the truest expression of my voice. KJ intuitively understands the deeper issues that can get in the way of expression and voice such as fear, shame, self-judgment, and old energetic patterns. They compassionately hold space so that our voices can shine. In our work together, I felt my voice deepen, my creativity come alive, and was able to access and embody powerful parts of myself that I didn't even know existed. I could not recommend KJ highly enough for anyone who wants to manifest their creative potential and truest expression, whether you have experience with singing and voice or not.
M. Wagner
I was told at a young age that I didn’t have a good voice, and even though I had dreams of singing on stage as a young girl, I never was brave enough to think that I could actually do that. KJ made me feel so comfortable and confident with my voice that I was able to sing in front of them. KJ will help you fill the inherent power in your voice that you didn’t even know was there. They will help you connect to the magical quality of speaking and singing and tap into another layer of your soul.
Kerina P.
The work KJ and I did together was physical, spiritual, ancestral and helped me move through my personal obstacles to find joy, confidence and connection with my voice. Now I sing whenever, wherever, however I please! And it pleases me. ;)
Mia N.
“For years, I was trying to sing like my favorite singers, never quite being able to embody song as it truly related to me. In the back of my mind, I frustratingly recognized this, but I never knew quite what to do about it. Now I sing songs the way I know I can sing them, with my own identity, finally comfortable and damn happy to be in my own skin. If you’re afraid of using your voice in any way, or maybe can’t stand just listening to your voice, I can’t imagine better friend to have in tackling all that than KJ."
Dylan